Meaningful Friendships

Proverbs 12:26
A righteous man is cautious in friendship,
but the way of the wicked leads them astray.

Did you know that not everyone is your friend? This may serve as a news flash but everyone that smiles and says hello may not care. Many people have found out this revelation the hard way. There's nothing wrong with being cautious in friendship because those that you keep close to you will influence you. As the wise King Solomon noted, the wrong friend can lead one down the wrong path to destruction. Thank goodness every action is a choice but the one that has the most influence will use it for either good or bad. The inner circle of a king is kept very close for a reason. Those around a king are considered close confidants and are consulted in many matters. Is the Lord your primary friend? The Lord has our best interest more than anyone as he desires nothing but the best for us as it's a reflection to his good name as well. But many don't consult the Lord. Is the Lord directing your circle of friends? If he isn't, those friends may have more influence over you than him. And can slowly pull you away from him if you allow it. If we allow the Lord to direct us in our relationships they will provide more fulfillment.  Look at your circle. Did the Lord direct you to them? Is he showing purpose in them? Are they influencing you in positive ways? If not, reconsider if they're really your friend.